Posted in Perceptions on Dec 4th, 2008 4 Comments »
Give THE GIFT of Honest Feedback
We’re in the midst of the gift-giving season. As we wander the malls, the boutiques and the Internet looking for those perfect gifts, let’s not forget one of the gifts that serves the soul – honest feedback.
Superego, inner critic and self-esteem issues can inhibit us from providing valuable feedback to [...]
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Posted in Observations on Nov 5th, 2008 No Comments »
What’s the root of self-rejection?
Some will say lack of self-worth; others projection; others self-hate.
Self-rejection is a function of the mind
The mind is the gate that opens or closes, thereby allowing or preventing direct experience. Any action of the mind that blocks direct experience is self-rejecting; conversely, any action of the mind that allows direct experience is [...]
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Posted in Observations on Sep 22nd, 2008 4 Comments »
They live among us and seem to be breeding faster than a warren of rabbits on amphetamines. Chip, chip, chip…
They spend their days whittling others down. They are the belittlers, the whittlers of others’ self-esteem. Whether their actions are conscious or unconscious, these distorted souls often display a self-righteous attitude to justify their violence.
How do [...]
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